I was an altar boy; it was a rite of passage for all Catholic boys at the time. That was just the way it was. There was no shortage of servers for weddings and funerals and at the three daily masses held in St Stanislaus, the Polish parish church, sandwiched between the Irish rigidity of St Anne’s and modernist cubist lines of the Italian St Anthony of
The ushers and sacristans were veterans all, strong, spare men with florid faces and piercing eyes, brushed back straw coloured hair, booming voices and loud raucous laughs and brown pin striped suits. Men with unpronounceable surnames and remarkable personal histories, Tobruk, Monte Cassino, the Eastern Front, Fallaise, Arnhem, the crinkle blue skies over Europe and the turbulent oceans of the North Atlantic. And among them the remnants of the Home Army and the doomed Warsaw Uprising of 1944, heroes – gallant, brave and foolhardy as only a Pole in battle can be.
Such men could be meek as lambs during Mass, kneeling obediently as knights errant before a gilded altar that was the work of a previous generation of equally stolid Poles, as they listened intently to a sermon from a twinkle-eyed Franciscan who’d been a paratroop chaplain at
They were members of the Royal Canadian Legion, one and all, using the Legion Hall to keep alive, if for only a few precious hours a week, the comradeships they so cherished and the memories of the many friends they had lost in far off lands.
Yet if the Legion branch was the heart of the community …the church was its soul. Repleat with chanted hymn, “Boże, coś Polskę” (God Save Poland), Byzantine gold, heavy incense and babcie (grandmas) sitting glowering in the first few pews as, with gnarled fingers, they click-beaded their rosaries and waited for the Black Madonna to free a Poland once more enslaved, this time under the Soviet boot.
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It took me some time to realize that victories that we celebrated in my school did not involve
In June 1946, a gigantic victory parade, nine miles long and twelve abreast wound through the bomb rubbled streets of
But the Poles, tragically, were not. In a gesture the famed historian Sir John Keegan described as “one of the most shameful acts of the Cold War,” the Poles were denied their rightful place in the victory procession, because, to include them would have greatly angered Stalin and this was something that Britain’s nascent Labour government was not willing to do.
Yet these were not truths I was aware of as a youth.
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I tried desperately to be accepted by my peers and that meant juggling Polish school with its language classes and cultural evenings and stern Felician sisters with games of street hockey and tag football and just plain hanging around the corner with my friends. In so doing, I sacrificed my father’s traditions and sense of self for that which
I never got to know my father in the way that most children do today. Like many other Poles of his generation my dad was a veteran, at times a distant and severe man; distant because of what he’d been through during the war, severe because it was part of his culture, a Kaszub following a solitary dream, religious in the way that only a Pole can be, with an intensity and vigour that seems lacking in today’s placid church services.
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Time has passed. It is November and a fitting time for reflection.
The veterans are almost all gone, the graves of southern Ontario holding the soul of a truly valiant Polish generation; a lilt sometimes holding in the wind like the “Hejnal” so played long ago by that lone trumpeter of Krakow, a whispered dream of wandering souls, a faint fleeting memory in a widow’s failing eye.
Perhaps they are all together about us, singing and laughing forever young in our renewed recollection of their glories. I like to think that and I also like to think that you and I, good readers, though proudly Canadian, do carry their torch.
I buried my father in his 89th year. It was a cold Canadian December day and the Legion provided and escort, frail old men they were with the fire dimming in their eyes. They played the Last Post and uttered the words that all veterans do at the graveside of a fallen comrade.
They shall grow not old, as we that are left grow old: Age shall not weary them, nor the years condemn. At the going down of the sun and in the morning We will remember them.
And we answered solemnly: We will remember them!
In Then, in the somber tradition of all Poles and dutiful sons from time immemorial, I retrieved some soil from the graveside to keep as a remembrance.
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There are new Poles among us, thousand upon thousands of them in this land we call Canada, for whom the stories of the Western Front and struggles of the Polish armies of Maczek and Sikorski, the airmen of the Battle of Britain, bombing raids in Europe and mariners who sailed the frigid North Atlantic convoys are fresh and new and invigorating and yet, at the same time, strange and foreign as if a whole generation of Polish youth had traveled to some far off planet to do battle with aliens
Yet for these new age Poles also, the legend and sacrifice live on.
For the true
For it is not only a mystic Polish soul, but the real Polish spirit that unites Poles everywhere.
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In the mid 1990s I traveled to
Shortly before, a truly remarkable Pole with the birth name of Karol (Wojtyla), a vigorous man who loved skiing and God and life, and who lived in an apartment on the third floor of a Vatican’s palace overlooking St Peter’s Square in the city of Rome, had single- handedly succeeded in sweeping back Stalin’s hated Curtain, that creaking edifice of injustice and intellectual and moral inhumanity.
So it was that sullen day that I found myself wandering about the cobbled
But I knew. In my inner self I knew. There was no other way.
I found the monument in the centre of
The Tomb of the Unknown Soldier.
Its history is worthy of note. In 1923 a stone tablet was placed before the
After a solemn high mass at
Since then, except for the brutal Nazi occupation, an honour guard has continually stood before the Tomb.
After the Warsaw Uprising, in December 1944 the palace was completely demolished by the Wehrmacht. Amazingly, the only part of the building to survive was the fragment standing directly over the Tomb.
Soil from 24 additional battlegrounds was added to the urns, as well as tablets with the names of battles in which Poles had fought in World War Two. However, communist authorities erased all traces of the Polish-Soviet War of 1920 and included only a few of the battles of the Polish Army of the West. In 1990, after
On this day, the soldiers guarding the Tomb seemed so terribly young. Wearing khaki great coats and spit-shone high top boots and four pointed czapki (military caps). Ram-rod straight with freshly scrubbed faces and too-short bristled hair a drill sergeant would be proud of. They stood upright as virtue, transparently true to their essence as honour. I paused then to consider the generations that had gone before them. How young, after all, can one be to die for the ideal of one’s country?
I walked purposefully to one of the outer urns and completely emptied the pouch so that the soil settled in the urn.
In that moment the spirit of my father was reunited with that of his ancestors and of his heritage.
He was home again.
And so was I.
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Edward Konkel’s Biography:
Edward Joseph Konkel was born on
Captured by the Germans he was incarcerated in a POW camp. He fled and worked with the Allied underground in
When the war ended, Edward could not return to
Edward Konkel was most proud of selling the most poppys to commemorate Remembrance Day (November 11th) of any veteran in
He died a proud Canadian and a proud Pole.
By Chuck Konkel
Canada Free Press
Monday, December 10, 2007